Thursday, 28 February 2013
Sunday, 24 February 2013
Its ISA OZO and IYANYA
Tuesday, 22 January 2013
10 TIPS TO MAKE A WOMAN FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU
1. DISPLAY MATURITY. It’s always said that women mature faster than guys and are often found complaining about how immature they act. Impress her with the way you deal with situations and your outlook on the whole. Show her how responsible you are about finances, or serious you are about your career. And demonstrate your ability to think clearly and rationally when disagreements crop up or a conflict of interests presents itself.
Monday, 21 January 2013
UNIABUJA: Odd Story Of A Visiting Student
A visiting student at University of Abuja last year recounts how his lofty dream of meeting high academic standards were shattered. Instead, he engaged with frustrated students, tired of being unheard.
It was a moment of relief when I finally met him. A short, elderly man in his white agbada, wearing a hearing aid that makes him easily identifiable. For more than a month I tried to meet Prof. James Adelabu, the Vice Chancellor of the University of Abuja (Uni-Abuja).
It was a moment of relief when I finally met him. A short, elderly man in his white agbada, wearing a hearing aid that makes him easily identifiable. For more than a month I tried to meet Prof. James Adelabu, the Vice Chancellor of the University of Abuja (Uni-Abuja).
Saturday, 19 January 2013
10 reasons he hasn't asked you to marry him
Still waiting on your ring? Here are ten possible reasons why your boo hasn’t gotten down on bended knee. (Real talk alert!)
My brother recently got married, and the guys got together for some “male bonding.” After a few too many, the gathering turned into a contentious debate, led by the single men, directed at the already married fellas about “how we got lucky” finding the right women. When I responded back, especially asking the single brothas who came with women they appeared to be in committed relationships with, “why haven’t you asked her to marry you yet?” I got some fascinating, and very real, answers. Here are what I heard to be the top 10 reasons he hasn’t asked you to marry him.
My brother recently got married, and the guys got together for some “male bonding.” After a few too many, the gathering turned into a contentious debate, led by the single men, directed at the already married fellas about “how we got lucky” finding the right women. When I responded back, especially asking the single brothas who came with women they appeared to be in committed relationships with, “why haven’t you asked her to marry you yet?” I got some fascinating, and very real, answers. Here are what I heard to be the top 10 reasons he hasn’t asked you to marry him.
13 Important things no one told you about Marriage
Outside of communication, the ability to resolve problems is the second most important part of marriage.
Every day it feels as if we are bombarded with negative reports about the institution of marriage. So much so that you would think no one is getting married anymore, right? Well, that statement couldn’t be further from the truth. Last year alone there were nearly 3 million weddings in the U.S.
If the number of marriages is so high, why all of the negative press, you ask? Many experts say other factors are often used to support the “poor state of marriage.” For example: The number of couples who live together without marrying has increased tenfold since 1960 and Americans are waiting about five years longer to marry than they did in 1970. On top of that, the divorce rate, namely among lower socio-economic groups, is increasing.
Before you make any conclusions, know that there is a silver lining in the recent data reported. Among couples getting married, there is increased stability. More and more couples are acknowledging that it is important to have a level of awareness and skills before entering matrimony in order to remain in matrimony. In 2011, nearly 50 percent of couples received premarital counseling.
While I don’t offer premarital counseling (yet), if I did, these are the 13 subjects I would focus on.
Conflict Resolution Is Key
Outside of communication, the ability to resolve problems is the second most important part of marriage. Having the same values allows for better understanding when working on the big issues — such as how to raise the children.
Marriage Is Not Always 50/50
Sometimes you have to put in the majority of what’s needed in the relationship. Other times, your partner will put in more. This is called teamwork. And it takes teamwork to make the dream work.
Attraction Typically Grows
Don’t worry if you will continue being attracted to your partner 5, 10, or 15 years in the future. According to a recent study I read about couples married for 30 years, most reported being more attracted to their spouse now than at the time of their wedding. (No wonder that Viagra is seeing explosive growth in their 55-65 year old age bracket)
Your Marriage Isn’t Safe from Gossip
Ninety-nine percent of the people you know will gossip about your marriage. Keep your personal business between you and your spouse and that gossip will have zero impact.
Don’t Make Comparisons
It’s very destructive and dangerous to compare your spouse to other people (or worse, celebrities and public figures). Don’t do it, ever.
Marriage Isn’t a Finish Line
I’ll never forget someone telling me (just days before my wedding), “man, you’re getting ready to check out, you’re reaching the finish line.” He couldn’t have been further from the truth. Marriage is the start of another incredible journey in life, not an ending to your happy story.
Good Communication Is Part of Your Foundation
All relationships (romantic and platonic) live and die based on the strength of communication. This is one area that should be honed prior to marriage.
Sex With Just One Person Is Not A Death Sentence
According to numerous national sex surveys, both married men and women report having higher satisfaction and more frequent sex than singles.
Focus On Height Rather than Length
When I tell people I’ve been married for 10 years, I get all kinds of congratulations but I’m never asked about the quality of those years. Society is obsessed with “how long” we do certain things. It is more important to focus on soaring as high as possible together.
Complacency Is Not Your Friend
Straying emotionally or physically from a relationship typically happens when one partner becomes complacent. Keeping your marriage fresh and exciting should be your motto.
The In-Laws Are Not the Enemy
Marriage is not simply the joining of two people, it’s the merger of two families and legacies. Treat it as such.
A Great Marriage Isn’t Conflict Free
If someone tells you they never argue with their spouse, send them back to the insane asylum. Real couples fight. Great couples fight fair.
Kids Are Serious Business
Despite what R&B tells us, becoming parents isn’t as simple as “let’s go half on a baby.” Bringing a child into a marriage will test every strand of your relationship. Be sure your marriage is strong, before even thinking about a baby
Every day it feels as if we are bombarded with negative reports about the institution of marriage. So much so that you would think no one is getting married anymore, right? Well, that statement couldn’t be further from the truth. Last year alone there were nearly 3 million weddings in the U.S.
If the number of marriages is so high, why all of the negative press, you ask? Many experts say other factors are often used to support the “poor state of marriage.” For example: The number of couples who live together without marrying has increased tenfold since 1960 and Americans are waiting about five years longer to marry than they did in 1970. On top of that, the divorce rate, namely among lower socio-economic groups, is increasing.
Before you make any conclusions, know that there is a silver lining in the recent data reported. Among couples getting married, there is increased stability. More and more couples are acknowledging that it is important to have a level of awareness and skills before entering matrimony in order to remain in matrimony. In 2011, nearly 50 percent of couples received premarital counseling.
While I don’t offer premarital counseling (yet), if I did, these are the 13 subjects I would focus on.
Conflict Resolution Is Key
Outside of communication, the ability to resolve problems is the second most important part of marriage. Having the same values allows for better understanding when working on the big issues — such as how to raise the children.
Marriage Is Not Always 50/50
Sometimes you have to put in the majority of what’s needed in the relationship. Other times, your partner will put in more. This is called teamwork. And it takes teamwork to make the dream work.
Attraction Typically Grows
Don’t worry if you will continue being attracted to your partner 5, 10, or 15 years in the future. According to a recent study I read about couples married for 30 years, most reported being more attracted to their spouse now than at the time of their wedding. (No wonder that Viagra is seeing explosive growth in their 55-65 year old age bracket)
Your Marriage Isn’t Safe from Gossip
Ninety-nine percent of the people you know will gossip about your marriage. Keep your personal business between you and your spouse and that gossip will have zero impact.
Don’t Make Comparisons
It’s very destructive and dangerous to compare your spouse to other people (or worse, celebrities and public figures). Don’t do it, ever.
Marriage Isn’t a Finish Line
I’ll never forget someone telling me (just days before my wedding), “man, you’re getting ready to check out, you’re reaching the finish line.” He couldn’t have been further from the truth. Marriage is the start of another incredible journey in life, not an ending to your happy story.
Good Communication Is Part of Your Foundation
All relationships (romantic and platonic) live and die based on the strength of communication. This is one area that should be honed prior to marriage.
Sex With Just One Person Is Not A Death Sentence
According to numerous national sex surveys, both married men and women report having higher satisfaction and more frequent sex than singles.
Focus On Height Rather than Length
When I tell people I’ve been married for 10 years, I get all kinds of congratulations but I’m never asked about the quality of those years. Society is obsessed with “how long” we do certain things. It is more important to focus on soaring as high as possible together.
Complacency Is Not Your Friend
Straying emotionally or physically from a relationship typically happens when one partner becomes complacent. Keeping your marriage fresh and exciting should be your motto.
The In-Laws Are Not the Enemy
Marriage is not simply the joining of two people, it’s the merger of two families and legacies. Treat it as such.
A Great Marriage Isn’t Conflict Free
If someone tells you they never argue with their spouse, send them back to the insane asylum. Real couples fight. Great couples fight fair.
Kids Are Serious Business
Despite what R&B tells us, becoming parents isn’t as simple as “let’s go half on a baby.” Bringing a child into a marriage will test every strand of your relationship. Be sure your marriage is strong, before even thinking about a baby
Thursday, 17 January 2013
44-year old Man Stabs himself to death in a show of pride in Zaria
A 44-year-old butcher at Tudun Wada Market in Zaria, Kaduna State, Tanko Maitsiren-Safe, has stabbed himself to death.Confirming the report, the Sarkin Fawan Tudun Wada, Malam Abdullahi Ibrahim, described the incident as pathetic and an outdated means of showing pride by ancient butchers.
Ibrahim advised other butchers to transform the trade, “especially now that most businesses in the country have been modernised”.
A police source in the area, who pleaded anonymity, also confirmed the incident in Zaria.
The source said the case was reported to the police on Jan. 15 and that policemen were immediately mobilised to the scene of the incident.
“On reaching the scene, they snapped the picture of the deceased and gathered some information from eye witnesses.
“After that, we ordered his relations to bury him,” said the source.
Similarly, an eye witness, Malam Yahuza Mohammed, said that the deceased and his boy were preparing “tsire” or “suya meat” (barbeque) when the boy slightly cut his hand with a knife.
He said: “on seeing what happened to his boy, the deceased collected the knife and proudly stabbed his lap thrice without any harm to his lap.
“He then opened his stomach and stabbed first and second without causing any injury to the stomach, but on stabbing the third time, the knife went dip into him thus flushing out his intestines forcefully,” he said.
The incident has dominated public discourse in Zaria City and its surrounding villages.
[NAN]
Ibrahim advised other butchers to transform the trade, “especially now that most businesses in the country have been modernised”.
A police source in the area, who pleaded anonymity, also confirmed the incident in Zaria.
The source said the case was reported to the police on Jan. 15 and that policemen were immediately mobilised to the scene of the incident.
“On reaching the scene, they snapped the picture of the deceased and gathered some information from eye witnesses.
“After that, we ordered his relations to bury him,” said the source.
Similarly, an eye witness, Malam Yahuza Mohammed, said that the deceased and his boy were preparing “tsire” or “suya meat” (barbeque) when the boy slightly cut his hand with a knife.
He said: “on seeing what happened to his boy, the deceased collected the knife and proudly stabbed his lap thrice without any harm to his lap.
“He then opened his stomach and stabbed first and second without causing any injury to the stomach, but on stabbing the third time, the knife went dip into him thus flushing out his intestines forcefully,” he said.
The incident has dominated public discourse in Zaria City and its surrounding villages.
[NAN]
Monday, 14 January 2013
9 Things Women Find Attractive in Men
For all the men out there wondering what women really want in a man it boils down to several key personality traits that women find attractive. Although there are literally hundreds of “traits” that can be used to describe a person, the following list is what the majority of women I’ve encountered and interviewed across the country express what it is they want in their “ideal man”.
Traits Women Find Attractive:
Ambitious
Women want to be with a man who is going somewhere or has the desire to be successful at whatever he’s pursuing. A man who has big dreams and goals and going after it is very attractive. Too often I hear complaints from women about their partners who have become “complacent”, sort of stuck in a rut. Having ambition shows characteristics of a leader, and most women are happy to support and follow a leader.
Attractive
Let’s face it, if a man is “attractive” to a woman then there is usually great chemistry and interest in the relationship. Women appreciate a man who takes care of himself and is concerned about his appearance. Men can also “let themselves go” and look dishevelled and worn down. I often hear women say that they don’t want a couch potato or a man with a beer belly. Looks do matter to women and even more so if she keeps herself looking great. It is easy to identify a man that takes care of himself because he also has a confidence about himself because he feels good about his looks. Men who rank high in self image are definitely more desirable to women and will likely have more success in the dating world. Attractive men pride themselves in their appearance and is clear on a first date with a woman. The men that do not take care of themselves or take the extra time to prepare for their first date, will have less chance for success or a second date.
Affectionate
Cuddling and snuggling seem to be a favorite pastime for women. Women appreciate a man who is not afraid to show his physical affection and interest in her. Any man that displays affection is sure to receive it return equally if not doubled.
Committed
There are many women out there that are looking for a man that’s not afraid of the “C” word. Commitment to the relationship is very important to a woman and a man that shows he is not afraid of commitment is extremely attractive to a woman. The typed of commitment that women are looking for is one that is lasting. Commitment implies he is also a responsible person and someone that is not going to walk away when the going gets tough. He is a “for better or for worse” type of guy. A man that shows commitment is not afraid of obligation and a woman certainly feels safer and more secure with a man that’s committed.
Communicative
Communication is a key trait for maintaining and keeping any sort of relationship. A man who is communicative is a dream come true for most women. Women are already guilty of “talking to much” so to be able to have a back and forth conversation with a willing partner of the opposite sex is a huge bonus! It is often said that men are not as verbal when expressing themselves and you sometimes have to pry it out of a man for him to talk about his “feelings”. So if a man is communicative and not afraid of sharing his thoughts and opinions, this is a very desirable trait.
Down-to-earth
Most women use this term to describe the type of man that they want to be with. Who wants a rigid stuffy stick in the mud? A guy who’s down to earth is someone that’s easy to get along with. He’s calm, cool, relaxed and fun to be with. He’s the type of guy that makes you feel comfortable and doesn’t easily anger or get worked up over the little things. He’s someone with a good heart and the type of person you can introduce to friends and family.
Family oriented
A lot of women when they are dating a guy will want to find out quickly what type of relationship the man has with his family, especially with his mother and siblings. This is often interpreted as a “tell” or great “indicator” of whether or not he is family oriented. Depending on the age of the woman and if she wants to have children, raise a family or already has kids; this trait becomes increasingly important in seeing whether he may be a good “father figure” and role model. Many relationships have failed because of the difference in values when it comes to their views on family and the importance of maintaining a relationship with their family members. It is not uncommon for families to meet once a week as a group or regularly and dragging your partner to a family get together is not a sign of compatibility when it comes to family values.
Honest
What woman does not want a man that’s honest? An honest man is an attractive man. Honesty is one of the TOP 3 desirable traits of all time in a man. There are countless stories of failed relationships that ended because of a breach of honesty. Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship. Without it, there is no relationship. If a woman finds a man who is honest and she trusts him, there is a very solid bond and a great foundation for a long-lasting relationship.
Intelligent
Women find intelligent men very attractive. In some cases, I’ve known women to prioritize intelligence over attractiveness and looks. Being able to carry on a bright, interesting conversation with a man and being intellectually stimulated is also a very big turn on. There are hundreds of women that carry on executive roles in the professional work force and require a man that she can take with him to important events and not fear the only thing he can talk about is Monday night football or his highest score on Xbox’s “Halo” last night.
So gentleman, if you want to have an edge on dating and becoming more attractive to women. Review some of the most popular traits above and see if you can develop your own traits to become more attractive to women. We know that there are so many traits that women find attractive and we definitely will explore more of them in articles to come. In the mean time, have fun dating and developing your skills at becoming a more attractive desirable man that all women are searching for!
Traits Women Find Attractive:
Ambitious
Women want to be with a man who is going somewhere or has the desire to be successful at whatever he’s pursuing. A man who has big dreams and goals and going after it is very attractive. Too often I hear complaints from women about their partners who have become “complacent”, sort of stuck in a rut. Having ambition shows characteristics of a leader, and most women are happy to support and follow a leader.
Attractive
Let’s face it, if a man is “attractive” to a woman then there is usually great chemistry and interest in the relationship. Women appreciate a man who takes care of himself and is concerned about his appearance. Men can also “let themselves go” and look dishevelled and worn down. I often hear women say that they don’t want a couch potato or a man with a beer belly. Looks do matter to women and even more so if she keeps herself looking great. It is easy to identify a man that takes care of himself because he also has a confidence about himself because he feels good about his looks. Men who rank high in self image are definitely more desirable to women and will likely have more success in the dating world. Attractive men pride themselves in their appearance and is clear on a first date with a woman. The men that do not take care of themselves or take the extra time to prepare for their first date, will have less chance for success or a second date.
Affectionate
Cuddling and snuggling seem to be a favorite pastime for women. Women appreciate a man who is not afraid to show his physical affection and interest in her. Any man that displays affection is sure to receive it return equally if not doubled.
Committed
There are many women out there that are looking for a man that’s not afraid of the “C” word. Commitment to the relationship is very important to a woman and a man that shows he is not afraid of commitment is extremely attractive to a woman. The typed of commitment that women are looking for is one that is lasting. Commitment implies he is also a responsible person and someone that is not going to walk away when the going gets tough. He is a “for better or for worse” type of guy. A man that shows commitment is not afraid of obligation and a woman certainly feels safer and more secure with a man that’s committed.
Communicative
Communication is a key trait for maintaining and keeping any sort of relationship. A man who is communicative is a dream come true for most women. Women are already guilty of “talking to much” so to be able to have a back and forth conversation with a willing partner of the opposite sex is a huge bonus! It is often said that men are not as verbal when expressing themselves and you sometimes have to pry it out of a man for him to talk about his “feelings”. So if a man is communicative and not afraid of sharing his thoughts and opinions, this is a very desirable trait.
Down-to-earth
Most women use this term to describe the type of man that they want to be with. Who wants a rigid stuffy stick in the mud? A guy who’s down to earth is someone that’s easy to get along with. He’s calm, cool, relaxed and fun to be with. He’s the type of guy that makes you feel comfortable and doesn’t easily anger or get worked up over the little things. He’s someone with a good heart and the type of person you can introduce to friends and family.
Family oriented
A lot of women when they are dating a guy will want to find out quickly what type of relationship the man has with his family, especially with his mother and siblings. This is often interpreted as a “tell” or great “indicator” of whether or not he is family oriented. Depending on the age of the woman and if she wants to have children, raise a family or already has kids; this trait becomes increasingly important in seeing whether he may be a good “father figure” and role model. Many relationships have failed because of the difference in values when it comes to their views on family and the importance of maintaining a relationship with their family members. It is not uncommon for families to meet once a week as a group or regularly and dragging your partner to a family get together is not a sign of compatibility when it comes to family values.
Honest
What woman does not want a man that’s honest? An honest man is an attractive man. Honesty is one of the TOP 3 desirable traits of all time in a man. There are countless stories of failed relationships that ended because of a breach of honesty. Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship. Without it, there is no relationship. If a woman finds a man who is honest and she trusts him, there is a very solid bond and a great foundation for a long-lasting relationship.
Intelligent
Women find intelligent men very attractive. In some cases, I’ve known women to prioritize intelligence over attractiveness and looks. Being able to carry on a bright, interesting conversation with a man and being intellectually stimulated is also a very big turn on. There are hundreds of women that carry on executive roles in the professional work force and require a man that she can take with him to important events and not fear the only thing he can talk about is Monday night football or his highest score on Xbox’s “Halo” last night.
So gentleman, if you want to have an edge on dating and becoming more attractive to women. Review some of the most popular traits above and see if you can develop your own traits to become more attractive to women. We know that there are so many traits that women find attractive and we definitely will explore more of them in articles to come. In the mean time, have fun dating and developing your skills at becoming a more attractive desirable man that all women are searching for!
Saturday, 12 January 2013
27-year old man jailed for raping chicken to death
A 27-year-old man is facing 15 years in jail after being convicted of sexually abusing a chicken which later died.
The magistrate court found Goliath Nyirenda (27) guilty of the offence and committed him to the High Court for sentencing. He was caught abusing the chicken on November 18 last year.
Mr Tiwilili said the offence was a serious one which carried a maximum sentence of 15 years and fell under the jurisdiction of the High Court.
Nyirenda was convicted of one count of unnatural offence contrary to Section 155b of the Criminal Procedure Code (CPC), a charge he denied.
Nyirenda said during trial that on the fateful night around 22:00 hours, he returned from a drinking spree and was later woken up by the owner of the chicken Gift Michelo.
He said Mr Michelo locked him in his house and went to call his neighbours before he was handed over to the police for no reason.
But in his testimony, Mr Michelo testified that on the night of the event around 23:00 hours he was woken up by a chicken which was making noise. He traced the noise to Nyirenda’s house.
When he entered the house, he saw Nyirenda throw the chicken through the window in panic. Mr Michelo picked the chicken and realised that it was his and when he checked it, he noticed that it was soiled behind by Nyirenda. He then called the police who arrested him.
[MyZimbabwe]
The magistrate court found Goliath Nyirenda (27) guilty of the offence and committed him to the High Court for sentencing. He was caught abusing the chicken on November 18 last year.
Mr Tiwilili said the offence was a serious one which carried a maximum sentence of 15 years and fell under the jurisdiction of the High Court.
Nyirenda was convicted of one count of unnatural offence contrary to Section 155b of the Criminal Procedure Code (CPC), a charge he denied.
Nyirenda said during trial that on the fateful night around 22:00 hours, he returned from a drinking spree and was later woken up by the owner of the chicken Gift Michelo.
He said Mr Michelo locked him in his house and went to call his neighbours before he was handed over to the police for no reason.
But in his testimony, Mr Michelo testified that on the night of the event around 23:00 hours he was woken up by a chicken which was making noise. He traced the noise to Nyirenda’s house.
When he entered the house, he saw Nyirenda throw the chicken through the window in panic. Mr Michelo picked the chicken and realised that it was his and when he checked it, he noticed that it was soiled behind by Nyirenda. He then called the police who arrested him.
[MyZimbabwe]
Friday, 11 January 2013
How To Touch A Woman, Know Now
That said, don’t hold back too long, because eventually you will have to touch her.
These are questions millions of men scratch their head over every day… should you touch her on the date, and if so, how much?
Will she think you’re creepy if you touch her too much… and how much IS too much?
Will she think you’re a shy wimp if you don’t touch her enough… and how much IS enough?
Let’s have a look at what science has to say on how to touch women… what happens to a woman physiologically when you touch her, what kinds of hormones get released and how does this affect the way she will FEEL about YOU?
Basics of Touch: Touching Her Skin
Ever heard of oxytocin?
The Wise Wikipedia says that oxytocin is “a mammalian hormone, best known for its roles in sexual reproduction.” That’s good news… because mammals… hey, that’s US!
You’ve probably guessed it by now… touching somebody, skin-to-skin, causes oxytocin to be released. That’s more good news, for a few reasons:
Oxytocin increases a woman’s testosterone levels, which is responsible for the human sex drive (yes, also in women)
Oxytocin is also the biochemical agent that triggers bonding feelings
Oxytocin is a natural feel-good drug. In fact, all emotions are biochemical processes, and very addictive ones at that.
Ever notice how you feel a sudden sexual tingling when you accidentally brush your skin against a girl in the subway… even if you haven’t even seen her yet, or if you hadn’t felt attracted to her before?
Voilá… That’s oxytocin at work.
Mother Nature has even more good news: women respond much more strongly to oxytocin, because this process requires estrogen to function… and women have MUCH more estrogen than men do.
Touching women… even lightly… can make them think about you differently, or even get aroused. It can build electricity between the a woman and you and trigger that primitive part of her brain… and bring naughty images to her mind.
What’s more, once oxytocin is released into the blood stream, it creates the desire to be touched even more… which will then lead to even more oxytocin being produced, and so forth… it’s a loop that feeds on itself and spirals the desire higher and higher!
This is also why touching is an essential ingredient if you want to turn a friend into a lover (if you really want to learn how to do this, read the article about “How to Get Out of the Friend Zone” here).
Finally, oxytocin also plays a huge role part in building trust, and even in the bonding process. In fact, oxytocin is the very reason for motherly love – which many consider to be the strongest and purest form of love.
Basics of Touch: Touching Her Clothes
So if it’s all about skin-to-skin contact… does that mean that touching her on her clothes is pretty much useless?
The answer is that it won’t create the same biochemical response and arousal – but when given a choice of not touching her at all or touching her clothes, always go for the latter. This has a few benefits:
It establishes that you’re a comfortable touching people (just make sure that you don’t touch ONLY beautiful girls… that might come across as creepy).
It establishes your physical dominance – you’re invading her space and exerting control.You can observe that when a politician greets somebody and shakes their hand, he will often try to touch their elbow with their free hand.
You can touch the small of her back when she walks through the door, even if her clothes cover her skin – this still establishes a leading dynamic. And in courtship, much like in dancing, the man is expected to take the lead.
It establishes rapport – if you touch somebody you’ve only just met the way you would touch an old friend, it will quickly seem like you’ve known them forever –to bystanders as well as to the girl you’re talking to.
Touching Women Right: Light Touching
Another piece of advice on how to touch women right – let your touch be gentle, macho man.
Imagine a feather lightly brushing along her skin, giving her tingling sensations and goose bumps… a light touch is often better. Quick light taps on the back of her hand, or a brief touch when there is laughter.
At other times, you want to physically take control of her with a strong lead; you might suddenly press her against a wall to make out with her, for example – mix it up!
Something even more powerful: many women have very thin, almost invisible hair on their skin… If you can brush this hair with your skin, without actually touching her, this will trigger a lot of HIGHLY sensitive nerve endings.
Breathe down her neck to achieve this same effect… once you’re making out, you can even lick her skin, then blow some warm air on the moist spot – and the evaporating saliva will send chills up and down her spine!
How to Touch Women Like a Pro: Advanced Touching
If you’re already more advanced, there is something else you can do… and that is to NOT touch her a lot early on.
Wait… what?
That’s right… if she can tell that you’re at ease with the situation, and that you COULD easily touch her but simply choose NOT to, just because you enjoy teasing her… this can build up powerful emotional response potential in her.
It’s what I usually do these days, and it can help to build a tremendous amount of sexual tension. You can even come close to her and ALMOST touch her… but then pull back again.
What’s women’s FAVORITE word when it comes to sex?
If you said “anticipation”… you’re on the money.
That said, don’t hold back too long, because eventually you will have to touch her.
No touching, no sex… I think we can all agree that this is sound logic.
You want to smoothly lead into the physical escalation, and not have it be an abrupt transition, so you will probably have to start touching her some time before you make your big move.
But keep your first touches very light, or refrain from touching her at all, to build that anticipation and sexual tension.
If you haven’t played much with anticipation before, you’ll be amazed how much it drives women absolutely wild with desire. But that’s exactly what it does – it turns them into burning, half-crazed lust MACHINES who can’t wait to quench their thirst… for YOU
These are questions millions of men scratch their head over every day… should you touch her on the date, and if so, how much?
Will she think you’re creepy if you touch her too much… and how much IS too much?
Will she think you’re a shy wimp if you don’t touch her enough… and how much IS enough?
Let’s have a look at what science has to say on how to touch women… what happens to a woman physiologically when you touch her, what kinds of hormones get released and how does this affect the way she will FEEL about YOU?
Basics of Touch: Touching Her Skin
Ever heard of oxytocin?
The Wise Wikipedia says that oxytocin is “a mammalian hormone, best known for its roles in sexual reproduction.” That’s good news… because mammals… hey, that’s US!
You’ve probably guessed it by now… touching somebody, skin-to-skin, causes oxytocin to be released. That’s more good news, for a few reasons:
Oxytocin increases a woman’s testosterone levels, which is responsible for the human sex drive (yes, also in women)
Oxytocin is also the biochemical agent that triggers bonding feelings
Oxytocin is a natural feel-good drug. In fact, all emotions are biochemical processes, and very addictive ones at that.
Ever notice how you feel a sudden sexual tingling when you accidentally brush your skin against a girl in the subway… even if you haven’t even seen her yet, or if you hadn’t felt attracted to her before?
Voilá… That’s oxytocin at work.
Mother Nature has even more good news: women respond much more strongly to oxytocin, because this process requires estrogen to function… and women have MUCH more estrogen than men do.
Touching women… even lightly… can make them think about you differently, or even get aroused. It can build electricity between the a woman and you and trigger that primitive part of her brain… and bring naughty images to her mind.
What’s more, once oxytocin is released into the blood stream, it creates the desire to be touched even more… which will then lead to even more oxytocin being produced, and so forth… it’s a loop that feeds on itself and spirals the desire higher and higher!
This is also why touching is an essential ingredient if you want to turn a friend into a lover (if you really want to learn how to do this, read the article about “How to Get Out of the Friend Zone” here).
Finally, oxytocin also plays a huge role part in building trust, and even in the bonding process. In fact, oxytocin is the very reason for motherly love – which many consider to be the strongest and purest form of love.
Basics of Touch: Touching Her Clothes
So if it’s all about skin-to-skin contact… does that mean that touching her on her clothes is pretty much useless?
The answer is that it won’t create the same biochemical response and arousal – but when given a choice of not touching her at all or touching her clothes, always go for the latter. This has a few benefits:
It establishes that you’re a comfortable touching people (just make sure that you don’t touch ONLY beautiful girls… that might come across as creepy).
It establishes your physical dominance – you’re invading her space and exerting control.You can observe that when a politician greets somebody and shakes their hand, he will often try to touch their elbow with their free hand.
You can touch the small of her back when she walks through the door, even if her clothes cover her skin – this still establishes a leading dynamic. And in courtship, much like in dancing, the man is expected to take the lead.
It establishes rapport – if you touch somebody you’ve only just met the way you would touch an old friend, it will quickly seem like you’ve known them forever –to bystanders as well as to the girl you’re talking to.
Touching Women Right: Light Touching
Another piece of advice on how to touch women right – let your touch be gentle, macho man.
Imagine a feather lightly brushing along her skin, giving her tingling sensations and goose bumps… a light touch is often better. Quick light taps on the back of her hand, or a brief touch when there is laughter.
At other times, you want to physically take control of her with a strong lead; you might suddenly press her against a wall to make out with her, for example – mix it up!
Something even more powerful: many women have very thin, almost invisible hair on their skin… If you can brush this hair with your skin, without actually touching her, this will trigger a lot of HIGHLY sensitive nerve endings.
Breathe down her neck to achieve this same effect… once you’re making out, you can even lick her skin, then blow some warm air on the moist spot – and the evaporating saliva will send chills up and down her spine!
How to Touch Women Like a Pro: Advanced Touching
If you’re already more advanced, there is something else you can do… and that is to NOT touch her a lot early on.
Wait… what?
That’s right… if she can tell that you’re at ease with the situation, and that you COULD easily touch her but simply choose NOT to, just because you enjoy teasing her… this can build up powerful emotional response potential in her.
It’s what I usually do these days, and it can help to build a tremendous amount of sexual tension. You can even come close to her and ALMOST touch her… but then pull back again.
What’s women’s FAVORITE word when it comes to sex?
If you said “anticipation”… you’re on the money.
That said, don’t hold back too long, because eventually you will have to touch her.
No touching, no sex… I think we can all agree that this is sound logic.
You want to smoothly lead into the physical escalation, and not have it be an abrupt transition, so you will probably have to start touching her some time before you make your big move.
But keep your first touches very light, or refrain from touching her at all, to build that anticipation and sexual tension.
If you haven’t played much with anticipation before, you’ll be amazed how much it drives women absolutely wild with desire. But that’s exactly what it does – it turns them into burning, half-crazed lust MACHINES who can’t wait to quench their thirst… for YOU
Thursday, 10 January 2013
Virtues and Sunnah of Jummah Day(Friday)
1. Jummah preparations should begin on Thursday such as clipping the nails, removing of the hair etc (Ihya aul-Uloom, vol. 1, page 161)
2. To have a bath (Ghusl) (Bukhari, Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah)
On one Friday, Rasulallah said: "O Muslims! Allah Ta'ala has made this day a day of Eid. So have a bath on this day, whoever has perfume should apply it, and use the Miswaak.“ (Ibn Majah)
3. To use Miswaak (Ibid)
4. To use Attar (Perfume) (Ibid)
5. To wear nice clothes (Abu Dawood, Chapter of Ghusl on the day of Jummah)
6. To proceed early as possible to the Masjid for Jummah
Rasulallah (Pbuh) said: "On the day of Jummah, the angels stand at the entrance of that Masjid in which Jummah salaat is to be offered. They write down the name of the person who enters the Masjid first, and thereafter the name of the person who follows, and they continue doing this. The person who entered first will receive the reward of sacrificing a camel in the path of Allah; the one who followed him will get the reward of sacrificing a cow, thereafter a chicken, thereafter the reward of giving an egg as charity in the path of Allah.
Once the khutbah commences, the angels close the register and begin listening to the khutbah. “ (Bukhari and Muslim)
7. To walk to the Masjid if possible for every step is a reward of a years Nafl Fast (Tirmidhi)
8. One should listen very attentively to the khutba even if one does not understand. One should not speak or even warn another to keep quite while the khutba is in progress.
9. To try to sit as close as possible to the Imaam. (Ibn Majah, Tirmidhi)
10. If the Saffs (rows) are already filled, one should not jump over the shoulders of the musallies in order to get to the front. (Abu Dawood)
11. One should not fiddle with clothes or fingers but listen attentively (Ibn Majah)
12. When Rasulallah (Pbuh) name is mentioned in the khutba then it is permissible to recite durood in the heart only without the movement of the lips or tongue.
13. Between the two khutba’s one should make dua. It is permissible to make dua without raising hands or moving the lips (I.e. dua should be made in the heart only without the movement of the lips or the tongue) (Aadaab -E - Zindagee)
14. To read: Surah Al A’ala (Sura no 87) in the first rakaat of Jummah Salah and Surah Gaathia (Surah no 88) in the second rakaat. (Bukhari)
15. Related by Hakim and Bayhaqi, from Abu Sa`id “Whoever recites Surat al-Kahf on Friday, light shall shine forth for him between the two Fridays.” (Ibn Hajar, Talkhis al- Habir)
16. Rasulallah (Pbuh) is reported to have said, “Recite Durood upon me in abundance on the day of Jummah since they are presented to me.” (Ibn Majah)
17 . Making abundant dua on Jummah
Rasulallah (Pbuh) said: "There is such an hour on Friday that if any Muslim makes dua in it, his dua will definitely be accepted.” (Bukhari, Muslim)
18 . Reciting Durood 80 times after Asr:
According to a Hadith recorded in Tabarani on the authority of Abdullah Ibn Abbas (RA) : Abu Hurraira (RA) reports that the Holy Prophet (Pbuh) said: “Whoever recites the following Durood eighty times immediately after Asr Salaat on Friday, before standing up from his place, Allah will forgive eighty years of sins and grant him the reward equivalent to eighty years of worship.”
Allahumma salli alaa muhammadinin nabiyyil ummiyyi wa-ala aalihi wasallim tasleema
O Allah bless Muhammad, the unlettered Prophet, and his family and grant them best of peace. (Jame Sagheer)
19. Abu Hurraira narrated that the Messenger of Allah (Pbuh) said: The five daily prayers, and from one Jummah to the next, are an expiation for whatever sins come in between, so long as one does not commit any major sin. (Muslim, 233)
20. It was narrated from Abu Hurraira that the Prophet (Pbuh) said: Whoever does Ghusl then comes to Jummah, and prays as much as Allah decrees for him, then listens attentively until the khutbah is over, then prays with him (the imam), will be forgiven for (his sins) between that and the next Jummah and three more days. (Muslim, 857)
Al-Nawawi (Ra) said:
The scholars said that what is meant by his being forgiven between the two Jummah and three more days is that a good deed is worth ten like it, so he will be rewarded with ten rewards for each of the good deeds that he did on Friday. Some of our companions said: What is meant by what is between the two Jummah is from Jummah prayer and the khutbah until the same time on the following Friday, so that it will be seven days, no more and no less, then three days are added making ten in all.
21. Coming early to Jummah brings a great reward.
Abu Hurraira (Ra) narrated that the Messenger of Allah (Pbuh) said: “Whoever does Ghusl on Friday like Ghusl for janaabah, then goes to the prayer (in the first hour, i.e., early), it is as if he sacrificed a camel. Whoever goes in the second hour, it is as if he sacrificed a cow; whoever goes in the third hour, it is as if he sacrificed a horned ram; whoever goes in the fourth hour, it is as if he sacrificed a hen; and whoever goes in the fifth hour it is as if he offered an egg. When the imam comes out, the angels come to listen to the khutbah.”
(Bukhari, 814 and Muslim, 850)
22. If a person walks to Jummah prayer, for every step he will have the reward of fasting and praying qiyaam for one year.
It was narrated from Aws ibn Aws al-Thaqafi that the Messenger of Allah (Pbuh) said: Whoever does Ghusl on Friday and causes (his wife) to do Ghusl, and sets out early, and comes close to the imam and listens and keeps quiet, for every step he takes he will have the reward of fasting and praying qiyaam for one year.” (al-Tirmidhi, 496)
Ibn al-Qayyim (Ra) said in Zaad al-Maâ’aad, 1/285:
Finally after quoting the hadith which speak of the virtues of Jummah prayer:
What we have quoted, when taken all together, indicates that the expiation of sins from one Friday to the next is subject to all the conditions mentioned above being met, namely doing Ghusl, cleaning oneself, putting on perfume, wearing one's best clothes, walking in a calm and dignified manner, not stepping over people, not pushing between two people, not offending others, praying nafil prayers, listening attentively and avoiding idle speech.
May Allah give us the ability to act upon all of these virtuous deeds and Sunnah of Rasulallah (Pbuh). Ameen
2. To have a bath (Ghusl) (Bukhari, Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah)
On one Friday, Rasulallah said: "O Muslims! Allah Ta'ala has made this day a day of Eid. So have a bath on this day, whoever has perfume should apply it, and use the Miswaak.“ (Ibn Majah)
3. To use Miswaak (Ibid)
4. To use Attar (Perfume) (Ibid)
5. To wear nice clothes (Abu Dawood, Chapter of Ghusl on the day of Jummah)
6. To proceed early as possible to the Masjid for Jummah
Rasulallah (Pbuh) said: "On the day of Jummah, the angels stand at the entrance of that Masjid in which Jummah salaat is to be offered. They write down the name of the person who enters the Masjid first, and thereafter the name of the person who follows, and they continue doing this. The person who entered first will receive the reward of sacrificing a camel in the path of Allah; the one who followed him will get the reward of sacrificing a cow, thereafter a chicken, thereafter the reward of giving an egg as charity in the path of Allah.
Once the khutbah commences, the angels close the register and begin listening to the khutbah. “ (Bukhari and Muslim)
7. To walk to the Masjid if possible for every step is a reward of a years Nafl Fast (Tirmidhi)
8. One should listen very attentively to the khutba even if one does not understand. One should not speak or even warn another to keep quite while the khutba is in progress.
9. To try to sit as close as possible to the Imaam. (Ibn Majah, Tirmidhi)
10. If the Saffs (rows) are already filled, one should not jump over the shoulders of the musallies in order to get to the front. (Abu Dawood)
11. One should not fiddle with clothes or fingers but listen attentively (Ibn Majah)
12. When Rasulallah (Pbuh) name is mentioned in the khutba then it is permissible to recite durood in the heart only without the movement of the lips or tongue.
13. Between the two khutba’s one should make dua. It is permissible to make dua without raising hands or moving the lips (I.e. dua should be made in the heart only without the movement of the lips or the tongue) (Aadaab -E - Zindagee)
14. To read: Surah Al A’ala (Sura no 87) in the first rakaat of Jummah Salah and Surah Gaathia (Surah no 88) in the second rakaat. (Bukhari)
15. Related by Hakim and Bayhaqi, from Abu Sa`id “Whoever recites Surat al-Kahf on Friday, light shall shine forth for him between the two Fridays.” (Ibn Hajar, Talkhis al- Habir)
16. Rasulallah (Pbuh) is reported to have said, “Recite Durood upon me in abundance on the day of Jummah since they are presented to me.” (Ibn Majah)
17 . Making abundant dua on Jummah
Rasulallah (Pbuh) said: "There is such an hour on Friday that if any Muslim makes dua in it, his dua will definitely be accepted.” (Bukhari, Muslim)
18 . Reciting Durood 80 times after Asr:
According to a Hadith recorded in Tabarani on the authority of Abdullah Ibn Abbas (RA) : Abu Hurraira (RA) reports that the Holy Prophet (Pbuh) said: “Whoever recites the following Durood eighty times immediately after Asr Salaat on Friday, before standing up from his place, Allah will forgive eighty years of sins and grant him the reward equivalent to eighty years of worship.”
Allahumma salli alaa muhammadinin nabiyyil ummiyyi wa-ala aalihi wasallim tasleema
O Allah bless Muhammad, the unlettered Prophet, and his family and grant them best of peace. (Jame Sagheer)
19. Abu Hurraira narrated that the Messenger of Allah (Pbuh) said: The five daily prayers, and from one Jummah to the next, are an expiation for whatever sins come in between, so long as one does not commit any major sin. (Muslim, 233)
20. It was narrated from Abu Hurraira that the Prophet (Pbuh) said: Whoever does Ghusl then comes to Jummah, and prays as much as Allah decrees for him, then listens attentively until the khutbah is over, then prays with him (the imam), will be forgiven for (his sins) between that and the next Jummah and three more days. (Muslim, 857)
Al-Nawawi (Ra) said:
The scholars said that what is meant by his being forgiven between the two Jummah and three more days is that a good deed is worth ten like it, so he will be rewarded with ten rewards for each of the good deeds that he did on Friday. Some of our companions said: What is meant by what is between the two Jummah is from Jummah prayer and the khutbah until the same time on the following Friday, so that it will be seven days, no more and no less, then three days are added making ten in all.
21. Coming early to Jummah brings a great reward.
Abu Hurraira (Ra) narrated that the Messenger of Allah (Pbuh) said: “Whoever does Ghusl on Friday like Ghusl for janaabah, then goes to the prayer (in the first hour, i.e., early), it is as if he sacrificed a camel. Whoever goes in the second hour, it is as if he sacrificed a cow; whoever goes in the third hour, it is as if he sacrificed a horned ram; whoever goes in the fourth hour, it is as if he sacrificed a hen; and whoever goes in the fifth hour it is as if he offered an egg. When the imam comes out, the angels come to listen to the khutbah.”
(Bukhari, 814 and Muslim, 850)
22. If a person walks to Jummah prayer, for every step he will have the reward of fasting and praying qiyaam for one year.
It was narrated from Aws ibn Aws al-Thaqafi that the Messenger of Allah (Pbuh) said: Whoever does Ghusl on Friday and causes (his wife) to do Ghusl, and sets out early, and comes close to the imam and listens and keeps quiet, for every step he takes he will have the reward of fasting and praying qiyaam for one year.” (al-Tirmidhi, 496)
Ibn al-Qayyim (Ra) said in Zaad al-Maâ’aad, 1/285:
Finally after quoting the hadith which speak of the virtues of Jummah prayer:
What we have quoted, when taken all together, indicates that the expiation of sins from one Friday to the next is subject to all the conditions mentioned above being met, namely doing Ghusl, cleaning oneself, putting on perfume, wearing one's best clothes, walking in a calm and dignified manner, not stepping over people, not pushing between two people, not offending others, praying nafil prayers, listening attentively and avoiding idle speech.
May Allah give us the ability to act upon all of these virtuous deeds and Sunnah of Rasulallah (Pbuh). Ameen
Wednesday, 9 January 2013
Men Only: 5 reasons why you remain single
There is a huge difference between the guys who get girls on a consistent basis and the one’s who just can’t seem to get attention from the opposite sex no matter how hard they try. If your love life is on the skids, it’s safe to assume that you are probably guilty of one of these 5 blunders.
1. You’re too needy
If you want to run a woman off quickly, one of the best ways to do it is to be overly needy, i.e., excessively calling, emailing or sending text messages early in a relationship, always being available and doing everything she wants. Furthermore, women are not attracted to the type of man who needs too much support, validation, and constant reinforcement.
2. You don’t know how to build attraction
Many men fail in this area because they don’t know how to talk to women in a way that makes them more interested as time goes on. You need to learn the trigger points in women, i.e., how they think, react, and speak. You also have to know how to project your best qualities and use these to build attraction.
3. You’re looking in the wrong places
Trying to meet women in bars and clubs is a waste of time! Many women do not like meeting men at bars and have a natural resistance to men who approach them in these settings. Some of the best places to meet single women are shopping centers, coffee shops, concerts and gyms. Women KNOW that guys who are in bars and clubs are looking for one-night stands, but they don’t expect to be hit on in the above scenarios (element of surprise).
4. You don’t have confidence
Women are attracted to men with self-confidence, period. Nobody wants a guy who acts unsure of himself. A sexually confident man who is secure about his sexuality and is comfortable being who he is will always attract more women.
5. You’re not persistent
Second to not even trying, giving up too early is the most common mistake guys make. You may need to get rejected a few dozen times before you come across a girl that likes you. Remember, meeting women is about numbers, so continue to go out and meet as many women as possible to improve your chances.
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1. You’re too needy
If you want to run a woman off quickly, one of the best ways to do it is to be overly needy, i.e., excessively calling, emailing or sending text messages early in a relationship, always being available and doing everything she wants. Furthermore, women are not attracted to the type of man who needs too much support, validation, and constant reinforcement.
2. You don’t know how to build attraction
Many men fail in this area because they don’t know how to talk to women in a way that makes them more interested as time goes on. You need to learn the trigger points in women, i.e., how they think, react, and speak. You also have to know how to project your best qualities and use these to build attraction.
3. You’re looking in the wrong places
Trying to meet women in bars and clubs is a waste of time! Many women do not like meeting men at bars and have a natural resistance to men who approach them in these settings. Some of the best places to meet single women are shopping centers, coffee shops, concerts and gyms. Women KNOW that guys who are in bars and clubs are looking for one-night stands, but they don’t expect to be hit on in the above scenarios (element of surprise).
4. You don’t have confidence
Women are attracted to men with self-confidence, period. Nobody wants a guy who acts unsure of himself. A sexually confident man who is secure about his sexuality and is comfortable being who he is will always attract more women.
5. You’re not persistent
Second to not even trying, giving up too early is the most common mistake guys make. You may need to get rejected a few dozen times before you come across a girl that likes you. Remember, meeting women is about numbers, so continue to go out and meet as many women as possible to improve your chances.
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Photos of the biggest supermarket in Nigeria,in Abuja
WOW! Abuja has crude oil?
At the early hours of Wednesday, Jan 9, I was shocked to hear that petroleum products have been discovered in an underground water well close to the Emir's Palace and the council secretariat in Angwan-Gade area of Kuje Area Council of FCT Abuja. Reports reaching us is that security agents have been on guard in this particular area. Lets see how far our govt is going to go about this matter.
Tuesday, 8 January 2013
What I know about Naphysah Yusuf
The name "Naphysah Yusuf" might sound unpopular to you but by the time you're done reading this piece,you will know why I chose to talk about her.
She hails from the Hausa speaking part of Niger state and she resides in Karu area of Abuja. She was born on 6th December,1995 and believe me,that day was blessed one because of her. She got 3siblings who are being cared for by her lovely Father and her irreplaceable Mother and she loves these people so much.She loves Reading,Chatting,Shopping,Gisting. She hates disturbance and she want people to annoy her. Her closest friends are Khadija,Deborah,Maryam,Joy and Aysha. Just like everyother girl,she loves colour pink.She has a dream of becoming a lawyer one day. I love this girl because she knows how to annoy me and has the drug to calm me down.I call her my daughter. One day,she will be greater than she is today. She's a firm believer in Allah. She is beautiful in and out. There is more to know as time goes on. THANKS
She hails from the Hausa speaking part of Niger state and she resides in Karu area of Abuja. She was born on 6th December,1995 and believe me,that day was blessed one because of her. She got 3siblings who are being cared for by her lovely Father and her irreplaceable Mother and she loves these people so much.She loves Reading,Chatting,Shopping,Gisting. She hates disturbance and she want people to annoy her. Her closest friends are Khadija,Deborah,Maryam,Joy and Aysha. Just like everyother girl,she loves colour pink.She has a dream of becoming a lawyer one day. I love this girl because she knows how to annoy me and has the drug to calm me down.I call her my daughter. One day,she will be greater than she is today. She's a firm believer in Allah. She is beautiful in and out. There is more to know as time goes on. THANKS
UNDERSTANDING WOMEN 101
Men and women are very distinct creatures. While men have a tendency to be straightforward, women are often not so simple. Unlike men, women often use hints and insinuations to steer you in their direction, and when trying to understand what they really mean, you are sometimes better off reading between the lines. The following cheat sheet will help you learn how to listen to your woman and bridge the gap between what she says and what she means.
1. “Fine.”
This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right.
2. “Just give me five minutes.”
If she is getting dressed, this means 30 minutes.
3. “Where is our relationship going?”
What she means is that she would like for you to suggest the idea of the two of you to graduating to a more serious and exclusive relationship.
4. “Nothing.”
This word ALWAYS means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with “Nothing” usually end with “Fine.”
5. “Go ahead.”
This is not permission–it’s a dare. Whatever it is, do it at your own risk!
6. “Loud sigh.”
This is a non-verbal statement that means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time arguing with you about nothing.
7. “That’s okay.”
This is one of the most dangerous statements a woman can make to a man. It means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.
8. “A guy was flirting with me.”
She wants you to know that other men are interested in her and that you should appreciate what you have.
9. “You know me so well.”
It means that she’s starting to feel the L-word, but she doesn’t want to be the first one to say it.
10. “Don’t Worry About It, I Got It.”
Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a she has asked you to do several times, but is now doing it herself since you’ve neglected it. This will later result in you asking “What’s wrong?”
1. “Fine.”
This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right.
2. “Just give me five minutes.”
If she is getting dressed, this means 30 minutes.
3. “Where is our relationship going?”
What she means is that she would like for you to suggest the idea of the two of you to graduating to a more serious and exclusive relationship.
4. “Nothing.”
This word ALWAYS means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with “Nothing” usually end with “Fine.”
5. “Go ahead.”
This is not permission–it’s a dare. Whatever it is, do it at your own risk!
6. “Loud sigh.”
This is a non-verbal statement that means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time arguing with you about nothing.
7. “That’s okay.”
This is one of the most dangerous statements a woman can make to a man. It means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.
8. “A guy was flirting with me.”
She wants you to know that other men are interested in her and that you should appreciate what you have.
9. “You know me so well.”
It means that she’s starting to feel the L-word, but she doesn’t want to be the first one to say it.
10. “Don’t Worry About It, I Got It.”
Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a she has asked you to do several times, but is now doing it herself since you’ve neglected it. This will later result in you asking “What’s wrong?”
8 Reasons Why Women Leave a Relationship
A stable relationship is based on trust, and if that is broken, it would be very difficult to heal. If there is a problem within the relationship, talk with her about your concerns.
All women have things they need in a relationship. Women want a man to be someone they can rely on, depend on and confide in along with making her feel happy, secure and loved. However, when things like insensitive remarks, little hurts and frustration pile up in a long term relationship, she might get to the point where she simply says “enough is enough” and leaves.
It’s a general rule that when your girlfriend decides to leave you, you’ve done something wrong. Chances are, you’ve done a lot of things wrong and depending on your situation, she probably left you for reasons you didn’t think. Here are some reasons why women leave a relationship: 1. Lack of Attention 2. Lack of Appreciation 3. Cheating 4. Lack of emotional support 5. Lack of Intimacy 6. Lack of Ambition 7. You were too controlling. 8. You were too abusive
All women have things they need in a relationship. Women want a man to be someone they can rely on, depend on and confide in along with making her feel happy, secure and loved. However, when things like insensitive remarks, little hurts and frustration pile up in a long term relationship, she might get to the point where she simply says “enough is enough” and leaves.
It’s a general rule that when your girlfriend decides to leave you, you’ve done something wrong. Chances are, you’ve done a lot of things wrong and depending on your situation, she probably left you for reasons you didn’t think. Here are some reasons why women leave a relationship: 1. Lack of Attention 2. Lack of Appreciation 3. Cheating 4. Lack of emotional support 5. Lack of Intimacy 6. Lack of Ambition 7. You were too controlling. 8. You were too abusive
Monday, 7 January 2013
I am Isa Ozo
Lets talk about me a little...My names are Isa Ozovehe Mustapha. I hail from Okene LGA of Kogi State in Nigeria. Am from a polygamous family but we can save the rest of the story about that. My dad is pharmacist and my sweet mum is a fashion designer. My siblings are the nicest and i also have some sweet cousins,I call them my siblings too. And my friends,i make them as they come but i still have some that have been there always. Am a lover of people no matter the tribe,gender or religion,old or young. Am addicted to gadgets,my phone is my best friend. I have a lot to do with the media. I socialize a lot,i respect women. Am a firm believer in ALLAH. There are more to say about me but with time,i will let you know.
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